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The 3 Leadership Paradoxes
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Book Recommendation: AI Won’t Steal Your Voice – Unless You Let It

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The 3 Leadership Paradoxes

If you are a leader today, your job has never been harder.

For decades, leaders operated in a simple way: They told people what to do.

That approach is no longer working. Top talent, stakeholders and investors want to be part of the conversation.

What's more, many leaders are stressed and worry about their future. Yet I see too many LinkedIn posts putting leaders down for likes, calling them micromanagers or “bad managers”.

But that is too simplistic and ignores the difficult reality leaders – you – face today, shaped by three paradoxes:

1/ The Emotional Paradox

Leaders have to run counter emotionally to what everyone else is feeling in the organization.

When the team or business is doing well, you are the one keeping everyone grounded and focused. When things are going badly and people feel down, you have to be the cheerleader.

This is exhausting.

2/ The Manager Paradox

When you get too involved, you take agency and drive away from the team. When you are not involved enough, teams tend to lose focus and performance drops.

It feels like you can’t win.

3/ The Strength Paradox

You have to project certainty. But you also have to admit what you do not know.

Too much certainty makes you rigid and disconnected. Too much vulnerability makes people question whether you can lead.

It’s tough to be both credible and human at the same time.

Let’s acknowledge that these tensions are difficult to navigate. There is no simple solution because, well, that’s the job, that’s a thousand little decisions every week.

I just want you to know: I see you, and I feel with you.

The best razor I can give you is this: Accept the tension, show up with intention.

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BOOK RECOMMENDATION

AI Won’t Steal Your Voice – Unless You Let It

Will AI make me sound generic? Replace my thinking? Dilute my voice?

In AI for the Authentic Leader, Allison Shapira gives a clear answer: only if you use it the wrong way.

Her central idea – the AI Authenticity Loop – is about staying in the driver’s seat:

You start with your thinking, your intent, your message
You use AI to challenge and expand that thinking
Then you take back control and shape the final message in your voice.

It’s a loop, not a shortcut.

You may recall that I held a TEDx talk on the impact of AI on leadership communication last year, so this resonates a lot.

I think of my AI tools as smart friends. Your smart friends don’t make you dumber. They don’t make you sound less like yourself. Nope, they challenge you, sharpen your thinking, and help you see different angles.

Used like that, AI doesn’t replace your authenticity – it amplifies it.

AI for the Authentic Leader is consistent with Allison’s earlier work in Speak with Impact, where she introduced the ACE model (Authenticity, Clarity, Energy). This book tells you how to keep those three elements intact in an AI world.

And she’s well placed to write it. Allison is a Harvard lecturer, a bestselling author, and advisor to leaders around the world.

She’ll be joining us soon on the Speak Like a CEO show – because this is a conversation every leader needs to have right now.

Have an inspired weekend,

Oliver